If you're by me you'll notice I have a 21 on my hand. I’m working on a little self-improvement
endeavor to be more positive, constructive and finishing what I start. It takes 21 days to make a habit - so this 21 is the beginning of my countdown to cultivating a helpful life habit.
Objective: no ‘complaining’
for 21 days, where complaining is describing an event or person negatively
without indicating next steps to fix the problem. If
you see me doing it, kindly remind me to reflect by saying the code word ‘Armadillo’,
and I will note erase whatever day I’m at and start over at 21. The code word is important; I've chosen Armadillo for obvious reasons, but you can choose something else. . .
Examples
Following the above definition, both of the following would
require starting over:
“Man, I went into the
post office and had to stand behind this rude jerk for 30 minutes. What a waste
of time.”
The following variation would NOT require starting over:
“Man, I went into the
post office and had to stand behind this rude guy for 30 minutes. It was a
waste of time. From now on, I’ll go in the mornings before 10am to avoid the
crowd.”
If anyone would like to join me, check out the article below
and let me know so we can go around talking about rainbows and puppies together
J
Be Happy,
Z
What a great idea.
ReplyDeleteGreat idea.
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